It’s been a bit of a blustery week and a half and we have lots to report. Mr. Handsome celebrated his BIG 5th, and it was a fantastic birthday! Although we spent the day at TCH, we were home in time to blow out candles with an outrageously cool cake from Cakes Against Cancer and Ali’s Cakes, and open PRESENTS! While we were meeting with Jake’s docs that morning, Saraben came in with big news, offering a special birthday weekend at Squirrel Creek Ranch with four other families from the cancer center. How could we say no? The plan… to whisk us off by plane, bright and early Friday morning and spend the weekend enjoying the ranch and all of it’s activities. There were exotic animals like zebra, camels, kangaroo, emu, ostriches, bison, so many. The kids were able to
bike all over, fish, swim, ride horses, feed the baby camels (Mary, Martha and Sarah), hang in the hammocks, and just play. There was cake to celebrate Jake’s birthday, each family made an Olympic family banner to represent our warrior spirit, there was a fashion show, we painted tiles for a bench that will find a home somewhere on the ranch, and moms got pedicures! It was a really, really good weekend for all of us and it was especially geared toward th
e kids and all they go thru as part of a cancer family – something they needed desperately. We were accompanied by our child life specialists, Saraben and Kelly, Doc Hary, Nurse Teresa, and several medical students. And some
prayers were answered as Ryan was the hit of the weekend. He has a bit of an old soul so hanging out with the med students and the older kids was right up his ally. He played Monopoly, told them all of his many thoughts and life “plans”, and picked Doc H’s brain for medical advice. Everyone was quite “impressed” (or entertained) with all he had to say. Jake was able to participate in some of the activities but we noticed him slowing down Friday night and by Saturday afternoon he was puny and getting warmer and warmer. By early
Sunday morning, he hit the magic number and we were off to the ER. Thank God we had our own Doc in tow! As we walked in, the nurse asked, “You travel with your own doctor?”, we grinned, “yes, yes we do!” (Felt a little like Phineas and Ferb.) The ER that is close to
the ranch doesn’t see a lot of cancer kids and thankfully, they allowed Doc Hary to be completely involved in Jake’s care. They juiced him up with antibiotics and fluids, took his first set of blood cultures, and we darted out to make our plane just in time. Doc H hit the phones immediately to get everything lined up at that little ER, as well as made all the necessary arrangements at TCH so they were prepared for us when we landed (exactly why Tx Children’s sends a crew for the weekend… for circumstances just like this). What a huge blessing it was for Doc H to be with us.
Had we been on our own, the ER would have
ambulanced Jake to the children’s hospital in San Antonio where we would have sat until we could be transported to Houston, maybe a couple of days. So we were “THAT” family. They’ve had 57 of these family retreats so this isn’t new for them. As I was worrying they reminded me that we weren’t the first and we won’t be the last to be carted off with a sick kiddo. That was Sunday… and here we are today. It’s been a really, really rough week for Jake. He’s had fever, the mouth s
ores are back in full force, and something new has hit… horrible leg pain. We’ve never experienced this side effect before and the bone pain has been beyond aweful. He’s on a full time pain pump which has kept him pretty sedated, and when awake,
he’s been fussy and uncomfortable. He’s also on lipids and TPN for nutrition since he can’t eat. He looks so tiny. Since he’s neutrapenic we’re here for a while. Some good news… he’s actually been awake most of the day and there is some slight upward movement in his ANC – we’ve gone from ZERO for the past 6 days to 30! It’s not much, but it’s progress and once it starts moving, we’re on the mend. We left the room this morning to walk and took a complete circle of the floor and he’s had moments of being playful and smiley – all big changes from
this week. As soon as his white cells begin to recover, the mouth sores will follow. I’m not sure that the kids will come up for Mother’s Day since Jake is has been so blah. We need to be very careful of anything they could bring around but I’m just happy to have this Mother’s Day with him! These kind of weeks put it all in perspective. I just want to say a VERY BIG THANK YOU to the Faust family for allowing our family to visit their ranch where they treated us like royalty… they have a true heart for the families of Texas Children’s Cancer Center… it was a tr
ue blessing of a weekend! So I’ll leave you with a little fun…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQ4Rnba85o8 A little Mother’s Day Note from Kid President that made me smile!